Natural amateur porn clips have their advantages over the more polished professional ones. However, the more staged professional clips also have its benefits. I like both, but the older I get, the more I lean towards the natural amateur ones. I don’t need to see everything at the perfect angle to feel the emotion in the clip anymore.

Pros and cons of professional porn

Everything is captured on film! The actors are often attractive with appealing features. The setting is usually beautiful, inviting, or just impressive. Thoughts can appear though: Was it more about squirting in a sex show than having a full orgasm? Of course, they can have genuine orgasms in these clips too, but few people can fully relax with a camera so obviously in place, I think. There will always be some doubt about whether the female actress really climaxed, no matter how idyllic and passionate sex the actors have.

Pros and cons of amateur porn

It’s easy to imagine being part of what’s happening on screen. When I was younger, I didn’t fantasize about being in a porn clip at all—I just watched what I saw. Nowadays, it’s exciting to imagine myself and someone else in what I’m watching. This feels more genuine if the clip is amateurish and not too staged. Several orgasms that feels realistic is more common. You can also see more natural and slightly different body parts, like a larger clitoris, a slightly smaller penis, or moments where the penis slips out occasionally. Seeing a woman completely relaxed, enjoying hot vanilla sex, is the best for me.

When it comes to porn clips, I find myself drawn to both longer and shorter ones, each with its own pros and cons.

Until a few years ago, I didn’t see much appeal in shorter clips. Partly because I wasn’t used to letting my imagination run wild, which shorter clips tend to do more for me. When I watch longer porn clips, I rarely drift off—I see what I see, and it turns me on.

But when I watch a shorter clip, 30-60 seconds long, something different happens in me that makes me fantasize more. I can imagine what could happen next in the clip, or that the actors are different people than those on screen. So, shorter clips bring a different type of arousal for me, which I’ve only recently discovered. Shorter clips also allow you to focus on something you particularly love, like ear kisses, making out, penetration, or an orgasm.

Even though I can get obsessed with the details, I also enjoy the bigger picture. And that’s where longer clips come in. A longer clip has the advantage of providing context, and there’s a greater chance of seeing orgasms. I’m pretty crazy about orgasms. Another benefit of longer scenes is that they can include a bit of background story. Often, this is something I think frames a porn clip in the best way.

Combining longer and shorter clips feels ideal to me. So, therefore, you will find a mix of shorter and longer clips here on this site from now on.

Do you prefer shorter or longer clips? And why?

I got a very interesting comment the other day about the female orgasm in porn and whether it often happens on camera in porn clips. Or if it rarely happens.

If I could – they can?

If you’ve read pieces by me before, on my Swedish sex blog Liws lust, you’ll know this is important to me. Of course, I can never be sure, but as long as it looks real to me, that’s enough. If I could orgasm like the woman in the scene, it seems possible. Amateur clips are better in this case; it’s just them with the camera in their home. Like in the clip with vanilla sex I recommended — do you think she’s really coming with her vibrator? I believe so.

Squirting

When a woman squirts, it usually indicates that she’s having an orgasm, at least to some extent. I’ve personally experienced squirting with just a small orgasm, but often it involves an orgasm—sometimes brief, other times more intense. It all depends on how much time she gets and how relaxed she is.

Would I be able to come?

During my sexual adventures with my husband and others, we’ve mostly had a camera present, and it has never affected me. That’s because I know only my husband will see it, and maybe, if I want, I can share a short clip with the person we shared the moment with. In a professional production, I probably wouldn’t be able to relax. But I believe some people can, or at least make it look authentic. It all depends on how safe the woman feels.

What is best in porn?

I’m not sure what’s better — when the women doesn’t come like in the double anal creampie clip, or when it looks genuinely real but it might be fake like in this foursome clip. The most important thing is that it feels authentic and that the woman is obviously enjoying the moment!! I suppose I could fake an orgasm, but I also think I can tell when someone else is faking. It’s like having that radar on. I enjoy trying to find the more genuine orgasms, that is one of the things I love about running this blog/site.